The boy is handsome, has a good job, has an expensive package, big flat. Just bought the latest modal sedan. Remember every special day. Send good messages too. Never enters the house with a gift. The girl who has such a partner is fortunate. After all, where do you find such a boy, this is the identity of a good boy. Parents want such a boy for their daughters. Then why isn't she happy? why is she sad, everything is at his feet. What is he lacking, what is that thing that is not there in his life partner, then wait, that thing is desire, he needs a partner to fulfill his desire.
That understanding is also needed, who can know a woman and understand a partner, otherwise of what use is this gift, car, flat, fat salary! There was a time when the car of life used to run with the feeling of needing little. The car of life used to move with emotion. The feeling used to be that whatever is there is a lot. Everything will happen gradually, don't lose courage, time will change. If it is not there today then no problem it will be there tomorrow. But today's generation does not need a few. It needs a lot, in this lot, there is more need for cars, and bungalows as well as mutual understanding, love, and equality.
It is said that there is a limit to waiting, and this is absolutely true. If the wait becomes long, if it becomes too long and there is no limit to its end, then waiting becomes a burden. Today's women probably lack the strength and patience to carry that burden. Whether the woman is at home, in the office, or anywhere else, she wants something from her relationship as well. Want to say something? Want to get something? Want to share something? Why should she wait for something she wants to share. After all, if she expects something from her partner, then how long should she wait for the fulfillment of her expectation. How long to wait is being talked about here because, in most relationships, savannas come in the initial days and slowly start growing. The woman either thinks that wait for a while, maybe everything will be fine later. She keeps on tolerating everything in the hope of getting it right. There is no initiative from the other side which makes things worse. If you also feel that the distance is increasing in your relationship or you are not getting any answer from the other level to understand what you want to say. If you are not getting along then delaying will not solve this problem. There will be no use waiting. Slowly you will get used to it and then accept it as a routine in the relationship. That's why don't use gestures to convey your words in time. It is wise to explain clearly to your partner.
There was a time when women could not express their desires openly. Mostly the talk is used to reach through gestures. But when women changed their roles and took care of their responsibilities in the office apart from home, then the matter came out of gestures and came to clarity. Now, gestures did not work. After all, there were responsibilities other than home. In such a situation, the management of that time was a big responsibility. That's why who will have what role in the house, Who will do what, and when will do it all started being decided. If breakfast, lunch, or dinner is to be made in the kitchen, then both have to extend their hands. now it is decided that if the wife is in the kitchen the husband will watch the children. If the maid has not come, then the housework has to be done together. Not only that the husband will not do the household work, Or go to the office, but when the husband comes home in the evening, the wife has to make tea. Mostly the responsibilities are decided by meeting among themselves, but where this does not happen, the wives decide the responsibility of the husband with authority. Earlier this was not the case, but now a lot happens according to the need and desire of the heart. If there is no desire, then nothing happens. Now the windows of desire have opened, and Fresh Air coming.
Any relationship needs some time to grow strong. Relationships are not ready-made. Where it is a process, somewhere it can be slow, In somewhere it can be fast, but it will take minimum time. Women often think of breaking this minimum period. It is visible in many relationships. You must have also seen that there has been a new marriage or a new relationship has been established from the second day itself, a belief that he will listen to me. Will listen to everything. Everyone will agree that looks expectant from women. The beginning of any relationship may be due to attraction and taking decisions after thinking about it, but to assume that both are right in their respective places. This is the biggest misconception. When 2 people with different personalities meet, stay together, and work together, they have some other differences as well. Sometimes misunderstandings also arise or will be created. It doesn't mean that the relationship is bad or wasted, but this is the most important time period when there is an opportunity to understand each other. The mistake of exposing each other's shortcomings in front of family members, friends, and relatives is often made by both parties which spoils the relationship. So talk carefully about agreeing and disagreeing. Keep your word. If one listens to others in takes a unanimous decision, then it will prove to be an important successful surgery to strengthen the fundamentals of the relationship. If you find a way out of this confusion in the beginning itself, then your relationship will never falter in the future.
IF WE SAY .........
" If we say and he smiles, let us sacrifice our lives for them. Let's punish the sorrows at every turn. Let's make life love." Life is not only beautiful but can become a song of love. All that has to be done is that one should say something when the other should smile. Both together should make life aloud. This is just the fallacy of love and desire. Both have to be with each other. My whole life is just laughing.
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